耐心的看这片感人的故事 ( pls be patient )

男孩和女孩从小就认识，男孩经常约女孩一起去村外的池塘边捉小虾，每次男孩总是
满载而归，女孩却是两手空空，女孩总是失落的含着眼泪，独自一个人回到家，然后
闷闷不乐。晚饭前，男孩敲响女孩家的门，女孩一见是男孩，扭头就走，男孩追上
前，对女孩说：“对不起，我把你的虾都捉走了，给，我把它们养在小鱼缸里，送给
你。”女孩眉头一放，慧心的笑了，就这样反复着他们纯纯的童年，转眼，他们各自
成长着。
——纯纯的“对不起” 。

男孩总是喜欢戏弄女孩，经常会把女孩逗到哭，然后又去哄女孩到她笑为
止，直到长大后，也是如此。

男孩经常偷偷的把女孩的自行车轮胎的气放到没有，然后躲在远处，看女孩
着急的走投无路，等着女孩拨通他的手机，然后破口大骂他的小贼行为。可男孩，依
旧那么喜欢这样的女孩。他窃窃的从远处走来，灰溜溜的为女孩推着那辆没了气的自
行车，任由女孩在一旁发牢骚，男孩却暗自窃喜，然后委屈的对女孩说：“对不
起，我知道错了。”随即，女孩便会柔弱下来，告诉男孩下次不允许那样，男孩点
头，于是，那时的他们每天都充满着笑容。

—— “对不起”的快乐 。

大学毕业后，男孩和女孩各自有了工作，男孩的工作总是很忙，有时一个月
都休息不到一次，而女孩总是抱怨男孩冷落了她，终于，他们有了第一次的吵架。女
孩委屈的哭起来，可男孩却很理直气壮的告诉女孩：“这是为了我的工作。”这场冷战
持续了很久。终于，女孩还是忍不住，主动和男孩和好了。后来很多次男孩和女孩都
因为这样的小事而吵得不可开交，可每次，都是女孩先妥协。

那年，女孩生日，男孩答应女孩要给他过一个浪漫的生日，女孩欣喜不已，她
在家精心打扮，等着男孩回来陪她渡过这个美妙的生日，这一等就是凌晨，女孩在睡
梦中醒来，脸上挂着泪痕，男孩见到女孩，心疼的为女孩擦去脸庞的泪痕：“对不
起，嫁给我好吗？” 于是男孩拿出一枚戒指。

—— “对不起”也是一种承诺。

婚后，男孩的事业大有成就，经常有许多应酬，而女孩已经成为一个专职太
太了，每天在家为男孩准备热菜热饭，把家里收拾的干干净净，她经常会去菜场买回
一些小河虾放在鱼缸里养着，男孩总问他为什么，女孩却总是慧心的一笑。

慢慢的，男孩每次回家，身上总是充满了不同的香水味道，而每次没等女孩
问，男孩总是忙着解释说应酬太多。女孩黯然，那时起，女孩不太爱说话了，也不像
以前那么开朗了，她总是喜欢成天的呆在家里，抱着枕头看韩剧，然后随着剧情哭
泣，夜深时，就会疯狂的大哭。以后的日子里，男孩回来时，身上的香水味只有一种
味道了，女孩从来不问，可是男孩依旧说：“对不起，今天又去应酬了。”
—— “对不起”，谎言的开始。

渐渐的，男孩开始不回家，或总是在外出差，男孩的事业越来越好，身边都
是奉承的人，他每天都在别人的恭维下自豪的笑着，而女孩，几乎不出门了，她总会
去超市买上很多方便面，和一些必要的日用品，然后把自己关在家里，这一呆就是很
久。从前，女孩会经常和男孩一起聊聊天，而现在，她孤身一人，身边没有一个可以
说话的人，每次打电话问男孩什么时候回家，男孩总是仓促的回答到：“对不起，我
太忙了。”女孩，失落的扣上电话，那以后她再也没有问男孩什么时候会回家。

—— “对不起”，只是个敷衍的方式。

女孩学着电视上的样子，开始打扮自己，她觉得男孩不回家，也许是看腻了
她，她决定不再颓废，自己的幸福应该靠自己争取，而不是无谓的后退。
那天，女孩心血来潮，按照地址去了男孩工作的地方，那是女孩第一次
去，也是唯一的一次。女孩涩涩的按下电梯，来到这个男孩经常说忙的地方，她细细
的观察这个公司的每个角落，这里的一切，她都觉得很好看。终于，绕过长长的办公
走廊，她来到男孩的办公室，轻轻的推开门……女孩愣住了，眼前看到的不是自己的丈
夫，也不是那个经常弄坏她自行车的那个贼小子，更不是那个把虾放在小鱼缸里的男
孩，而是一个正在和别的女人做爱的男人。那个女人坐在桌子上，******的发出微弱
的呻吟声，那个男人，仿佛山林里饿极了的野兽……

许久，男孩才发现了女孩，男孩惊慌失措，忙把衣裤捡起来穿好。可女
孩，转身离开了。男孩飞奔出去，追着女孩，那晚，大雨袭击了整个城市。女孩不顾
男孩的叫喊，径直往前跑，往回家的方向跑，男孩在女孩后面大喊：“对不起，我还
是爱你的，对不起，我真的只爱你。”可女孩，始终没有听见。

—— 这样的“对不起”太伤人。

男孩一直都没有找到女孩，女孩失踪很久了。男孩的世界已经一片黑暗，无
心工作，无心花天酒地，他想不到女孩可以去哪里，因为女孩没有朋友，她唯一的朋
友就是男孩，男孩终日守着电话机，手机24小时不关机，怕错过了女孩的电话。这一
等就是半年多。

快递为男孩送来一个盒子。
男孩打开一看，里面是许多河虾的标本，有的在树叶边休息，有的在水草里
躲着，各式各样的河虾标本，旁边放着一封信。

“ 我始终没有勇气再见到你，可能是我太懦弱，也或许是我根本不想见到
你，我想这些『警告：注意文明用语！』应该过的没什么两样吧，我很好，我学会了
离开你怎么让自己存活，我懂得了怎样赚钱养活自己，而不用每天等着你回家，为你
烧一桌热腾腾的饭菜，直到凉了也不见你的人，我的手机已经不用了，因为我已经不
会再为你24小时的不关机，让自己饱受辐射的折磨。我懂得怎样去爱惜自己，珍惜自
己的本来应该美好的生活。我想，我是可以忘记怎么去爱你的，因为你把我的爱弄得
遍地麟伤。

离婚协议书，就压在鱼缸的底下，你签完字，按照地址给我寄过来就行了。
对不起，我想我是真的累了。”

男孩按照地址找去，他满心希望能够见到女孩，然后让女孩原谅，并且告诉
女孩自己不能没有她，可是打开门的却是女孩的父亲，而女孩就站在她父亲的身后——
是女孩的遗像。

女孩的父亲告诉男孩，女孩在写完这封信后，跳楼自杀了，血肉一片模糊。
—— 原来“对不起”也可以是种结束。

那一年，男孩疯了。
每个人在自己的生命里头，一定会遇到一个自己真正该珍惜的人。请你好好的珍惜那
一个人，不是每一句的对不起，都可以换来每一句的没关系……千万不要辜负了自己心
爱的人，那对谁，都不好……把这个故事传下去，让你的朋友们知道，不要随意地说出
对不起......
多陪陪该珍惜的。生命诚可贵，有情价更高。

看了有什麽感觸嗎?

ANN i'm totally agree with u...

This is for u U BITCH!!!!


Malaysia are running out of gentlemen ... I thought educated people will behave ... but certainly
I'm wrong .... So wrong ~

U r not respectable ~ U r the most unbelievable insane duck in the whole wide UNIVERSE !!

U are a irritating , irresponsible person , flirting , bluffing and u smell sucks like a skunk !!!

Please admit u are flirting around ! cause u DID ...Don't find an excuse saying that girls stick to u ....
U'll make me vomit !!!

Your " good appearance " are just a mask ( thats wad u left ) ... Your organ vanish thousand years ago ...
Please don't degrade others just because of u ... BIACH !!!

Pity u that u don't have a true friend ... They don't know your true personality ...

( If u think is u , then is u ... If not please kindly ignore this post ) thank you ^^

Saturday night ...

Happy Birthday Great grandmother and granpa....

I love u ^.^

Dishes are so delicious ... I got no time to take photo of it ... Coz i eat every single thing ^^

Take picture with cousin ... ( small actor )




This is my dad's gf ... ( 苗条的身材）Phew wek ~


Lolx ... here comes the Birthday Star ( shiny shiny )


I feel so warm standing beside my family ... A very big family ....

Although its not real .... is acting in front of people.... but there is a small stratification for me ...

我的开妈要结婚了……

第一，恭喜我的“开妈” 快结婚了…… 爱你哦！！ （你们应该也认识，她是香港明星）

商天鹅 ^^ 中间是她，右边是我，左边是朋友 ^^


第二，我最近看到我的开哥又在电视了…… （以前拍那个翻版CD的广告，“你看了没阿” ）


今天翻翻以前的照片来看，发觉自己样子变了很多…… （我老了！！　）

今天的时间过得特别慢，因为什么？唉……　有时时间太多，有时时间太少……


我发觉 Inti 越来越多黑人打扮成 Men in Black 上课了，是因为有型吗？太夸张了吧！！

Inti 很闷！！我要离开它！！ 我快发霉了…… 无聊透顶……啊！！！！

Ps: 说没有牵挂是假的，可是叫我承认，不可能……

心事……

最近的我好多心事围绕着我，一波未平，一波又起……

这些事情疙瘩在我心里，诉不出……

我曾以为只要在很短的一段日子里事情就会变得简单，而且也会有很大的改变，进展……

可惜我错了。那只是我一厢情愿的想法，现实生活中不是这样的……

为什么我的肩膀扛的包袱越来越沉重？ 越来越辛苦？

对着电脑，脑袋却空白，也写不出我心里的感想，困扰……

难道我跟你们真的有代沟？为什么我想的事情，意见，看法都跟你们不同？

我开始有些累，累得不想面对，累得有点懦弱……

已不再有人明白我……甚至是我自己……

Dopamine...

Release too much dopamine will be like Ann !!!

She has been laughing from morning to evening .... She laugh like a witch, bark like a dog ==''

And guess wad she is doing now? stick to the wall like a lizard...


I had Mac D for lunch today ^___^ so nice !!! Mc chicken set... with french fries, Pepsi and Ice cream ...

Stupid drew jump like a monkey and hurt his leg =='' C2p ...

Here comes Three loving sisters and brothers ^^


Inti Pool Group ~



On the way HOME !!!

Sony Ericsson Aino XD

Thanks to those bitches that stole my phone...

Help me to get rid of N85, I'm glad that I bought a new 1....

Sony Ericsson Aino, Touch screen , Many function , Nice keypad , Nice design ^^


Been using this phone for a week...

Andrew, dun jealous yeah ... last time LC me use C905 XP...
But .... Limited theme ... T______T waiting for latest theme ....

Anyway I get 25 / 35 on my biology quiz ... late to class, insufficient time to finish....

Andrew ( absent class king ) improved ... wad a shock ... 19/35 ^^ ....

Left : Ann darling , Middle : me , Right : Andrew

Horoscope for today' me and her ~

16 Jan 2010
Scorpio

Pressure from loved ones or colleagues will be enough to turn you in the other direction. You wonder if they have bothered to learn their lesson regarding this very issue. A changeover in your priorities makes it easier for you to be real about your feelings for a certain person. Up and down emotions with energies running high make for uncomfortable moments today, so avoid hasty choices or impulse buying. If tempers flare, just don't go there, spare yourself and others the hassle. Commitments made now will tend to partake of this atmosphere, so have the patience to wait a little before moving ahead.

Izzit a little too accurate?? =S


16 Jan 2010
Cancer

You may want to call or write someone you love, simply to cheer them up or tell them you love them. The tone of this time is light, friendly and easy. Positive connections are made with others, and you may meet a new romance. This is a favorable time to visit people you really enjoy.Feelings and desires may feel like you are on a wild ride, and trying to find balance may be a challenge. Today's beginnings may mature into tomorrow's turmoil's, so don't fly off the handle and don't jump into something you're not sure of. Let the energy settle until tomorrow, then decide on it.

Erm~..
Front part is accurate..but.. wat new romance is definitely a crap!!! ==

犯贱的鸭……

别说我是你的前任！因为我根本都不想承认……（Don't tell anyone u r my ex, coz I won't admit )

别告诉别人以前的私事，因为很讽刺！( Don't tell ppl our past, its sarcastic )

你拿张嘴巴贱过Aunty，我根本不想理会…… ( U got a son of a bitch‘s mouth ... Irritating )

你的现任女友我简直不敢相信，丢了我的脸！ ( Ur current girlfriend is out of standard !!)

你不配当我的ex，因为你没有资格，不要去跟人家说你是我的前任！！

一个在女朋友生病，还闹着要出去……

一个忘记女朋友生日的男生，笑着带过……

一个背叛再背叛的男生，还问心无愧……

一个做事不敢当，乱交关系的男生……

一个没风度，不稳重，没礼貌的男生……

一个连自己的好兄弟们都不挺你，还唱衰你的男人……

一个良心给猪吃了的人，你已不是个男人……

别说你姓陈，别说你是我的前任，别说你认识我……

从来我都没有那么对一个人这么的反感，你是唯一一个男生让我觉得可怜又可悲的男生……

自己看不见自己的未来，自己没有计划未来的人，你的乐趣只有玩女生……

你的爱好只有换女友，只会吹牛，只会口花花……

愿上天怜惜你，让你变回人类，否则你只是一个被虫蛀烂的苹果，跟一堆烂苹果一起腐烂……

4 字 经

生 病 的 你

盖 好 被 被

要 多 喝 水

多 多 休 息

准 时 吃 药

要 想 想 我


傻 瓜 。 。
这 是 我 送 你 的 4 字 经
哈 哈 哈 哈 =P

02/01/2010 =)

Went to dear's hse today =)
had a simple but sweet day with my dear =)
had lunch together at a Malay restaurant..
Nasi goreng biasa 2 ~ roti kosong 2 ~ Tom Yam soup chicken 2 ~ 100 plus dan teh ais ~ XD
greatest satisfaction.....=)
not from the food..
Its the moment I've shared with you in a simple meal..

Headed 7-11..
we always go there for instant food, sweets and snacks..haha!! everything!!!
after that visited Tyson..
dear's godson..a doggy
the poor doggy's hind leg was ran over by a Hilux
it cannot move now..poor tyson T___T
stayed for some time to comfort him...T___T

after that we stayed inside the room and watch drama..haha..
we watched 命中注定我爱你
Nice =)
Ate steamboat before I go back home..
She don let me order tom yam soup paste T___T
coz my body heat is increasing..=P
Dear sent me to kajang ktm station as usual..haha
so took some random pic while waiting for the stupid train XD
This pic is currently my profile pic at facebook..=P





This was at kajang ktm station...
while waiting for rawang train =)

New Year's Eve

Unfortunately...
I didn't manage to celebrate new year together with my dear this year..haiz
I was at desa park city while she was clubbing at coco banana

anyway
I manage to call her on 12++ to wish her her happy new year
not 12am sharp due to the traffic jams of phone lines
That time i thought she will club till sot d..
surprisingly she was juz arriving sunway pyramid and was looking for parking ==

Well..
I had dinner with my secondary school's frens in a Korean rstaurant named daorae
nice korean bbq =) ..but the kimchi soup was super hot!!!
hahahahaha...







This was a some kind of appetizer before the main course
hv to suck the flesh out..hahaha
my friend nearly got a choke coz she sucked too hard and the flesh went straight to her throat..XD



Wan Ling and Shu Yi ( Wan Ling is the 1 who got choked...haha!! )



This is Nyin Hui..our big sis =)



This is Chong Siang XD Driver for the day!!! XD
Credits for him!!!hahahaha..

After we had our full full dinner..
We headed to The curve for countdown
We reached there ard 8pm..
Walked ard..
Saw The Laundry had set up a booth for extra seats and The Library was full hse!!OMG~
pass by The Street many times..no wer to go..



nice lightings??haha..but duno why I don get the new year atmosphere..
We even mou liu till capturing the image on the deco ball of x'mas tree..



hahaha..funny??=)

The curve was super boring!!!!\
So we decided to go back desa park city to enjoy the best fireworks view ever..
clear sky nice air..wooo hoooo!!! =)
The fireworks was really fantastic and awesome!!!
continuously for 5 mins =)

I wish u could be here with me...I really wish....



My new year wish for this year..
I hope I could celebrate every single new year with u..





after that me, wan ling, shu yi and chong siang headed to Sri Damansara's Mcd to hv supper
I ate the prosperity burger!!!
WTF!!...damn hot!!!..but nvm la..eat d got prosperity..hahahahaha XD



and I took a pic wif him =) Mcdonalds =)



after that...
what r u waiting for???
go home sleep lo!!!
LOLZ ~~

Clubbing Night

Sibeh long no clubbing jor .... Thx to Mr.Yap bring us go ... ^^

My dear went to countdown with her old friends...I so cham T______T

Very nice, we drank alot.... Rainee cry alot... Haiz... All juz because of her stupid Ex...

Too dark inside, so didn't take picture... But we take it before we went in...

Welcome the nice frozen couple ... XP

My beloved friends.... XD

T___T still got alot of picture but is with my friend... Haiz.... Next time take d only upload...

The fireworkers are quite nice... Is been the second year,I celebrate New year inside the car ==

Fuck tis stupid curse.... curse u back...

Happy 5th month!!!

My curse has been broken..
yeah..
a 4 months relationship curse
broke by Samantha Ling..
haha...



Dear..
5th month le =)
I'm so happy!!!
Do you??
In my thoughts..
I really thought months or even years of relationship would be very long..
I can't take it...
but now...
guess what?..
Time flies when I'm with u ( arguements exceptional..haha =P )
I love you =)
muacksssss....